Dimmie's BDSM Information Page

The following represents a collection of opinions, articles and facts commonly accepted in the BDSM community.  There are many points of view in this very diverse Scene.  I make no claim that this represents all of them.  If you have any comments, please email me at denversubmissive@aol.com.

KINKY FACTS AND HELPFUL FORMS

• Master/slave flag and symbol
• BDSM Glossary - BDSM terms
• Gay Life Glossary - Helpful Terms
• Hankie Code - Flagging an interest
• Negotiation - A Negotiation Worksheet
• Limits - A Limits Worksheet
• Traveling on Planes - How to Get Your Toys through Airport Security
• Safe, Sane and Consensual - The Origin
• Kink Friendly Professionals - at the NCSF

ETIQUETTE, SAFETY AND THE LAW

• Party Etiquette - How to act in Public
• Safety - Tips
• Safety - Everything you Ever Wanted to Know about Sexually-Transmitted Diseases (STDs)
• Safety - A Dungeon Monitor's Manual
• The Law - Public Indecency
• The Law - Consent, Assault & Sexual Assault
• The Law - Case Law About BDSM
• Protocols - For Those Interested in More Formal Service

SCENE INFO

• Anatomy of a Scene - An Outline
• Dom or sub?, Master or slave? - Who we are and what we do
• What's In a Name: Submissive vs Slave? - Better than i could have ever said it!
• Are You a Dominant? - If you're not sure?
• Questionaire - Are You a Good Dominant?
• Guidelines - What it Means to be a Dominant
• * and Dimmie's answer - What it Means to be a submissive
• Training - Training a submissive
• Pet Training - Training a human pet
• Service - Types and Styles of Service
• Discipline vs Punishment - One viewpoint
• Embarrassment, Humiliation and Degradation - A Comparison
• Good Fear and Bad Fear - Avoiding Pitfalls
• Erotic Pain - With a focus on Spanking
• Having a D/s Relationship - a Manual
• Female Genitorture - Intimate Edge Play
• Canes - A Beginner's Guide
• Polyamory - Can it Work?
• Jealousy and the Abyss - Understanding and Conquering it
• Slaves and Limits - Can slaves have limits?
• No Limits Slavery - One slave's point of view
• Consensual Slavery - Is it a Myth?
• Contracts and Collars - When you're ready for a committment
• A Legal Contract? - If one can be, this one may be the example, but is it still M/s???
• History - The Old Guard (The History of Leather Traditions) an article by Guy Baldwin M.S.
• My weekend as a boy - Old Guard Training Camp
• The Lock - A Poem
• To Sir or Not To Sir - That Is The Question
• Safe, Sane & Consensual - Myth or Reality?
• Call no man Master - Reconciling Religion and M/s Relationships

LINKS TO MY FAVORITE KINKS

• Society for Human Sexuality - BDSM Index
• The Iron Rose Library - A Must visit!
• Different Loving Home Page - by the authors of the book
• The Society for Human Sexuality - Huge! Everything you wanted to know about sex...kinky or not.
• Latches - A wonderful site for submissive women
• BDSM and the Law - Written by a scene friendly attorney and worth reading!

LOCAL GROUPS

• Celebration of Power
• COLLAR
• Colorado Uniform Men
• Denver Bound
• DOM - Dominants Only Meeting
• The Denver Chapter of the FOLD
• The Gateway or call Christine at 720-233-4703
• LeatherMen Colorado
• Longmont Munch
• PEP - Denver
• Pikes Peak Summit Masters
• Thunder in the Mountains
• Women In Control of Kink - Denver

DUNGEON/PLAY SPACES

• The Denver Sanctuary

SUPPORT YOUR LOCAL THEATRE

• Christine's Dangerous Theatre - at the Denver Sanctuary The dungeon is transformed into a totally vanilla small theatre space for these productions.   Bring your friends and family!

WHAT'S HAPPENING

• ColoradoBDSM Community Calendar